ACCEPTANCE AND COMMITMENT THERAPY (ACT) – AN ONLINE RESOURCE
Q: How can I deal with difficult feelings?
A: Learn to watch them come and go.
One of the things I like most about ACT is the way it reminds us that we are more than our feelings, more than our thoughts. Feelings and thoughts come and go but we, the essential we, are always here. There is a part of us that doesn’t change, that has been with us from the beginning and will be with us to the end.
There is a part of us, ACT calls it the Observer Self, that is able to watch our thoughts and feelings come and go. Yes, we are more than our feelings, more than our thoughts.
This is particularly important to remember when we feel the urge to make important decisions. “Don’t make a permanent decision on temporary feelings” is good advice. We, the essential we, will still be here tomorrow, but our feelings may not. They are temporary, they are only passing through.
I wrote “DEALING WITH FEELINGS” to remind me of that.
HOW ABOUT YOU?
- Have you learned not to make permanent decisions on temporary feelings?
- How do you deal with your feelings?
- What can you share that might be of help to others?
Please leave your comments. I would love to hear from you.
THOUGHT FOR TODAY
POEM FOR TODAY
DEALING WITH FEELINGS
Sometimes we will feel flat, you know, sometimes we will feel flat,
In the great array of feelings there is no escaping that,
There’ll be times we’ll wake up cheery in a world brimming with joy,
And there’ll be others we’ll wake weary, everything will then annoy.
How we deal with all these feelings, that’s the challenge that we face,
Will we try to cling too long to some, try others to replace,
Or will we treat them all as equals, just sensations passing by,
Let them come and go quite easy, just like clouds up in the sky.
If we do then we’re enlightened, watching feelings passing through,
Not becoming agitated, but it’s difficult to do,
For it’s only human nature to avoid what we dislike,
But our feelings are like clouds, you know, we don’t know when they’ll strike.
And so we have another option, we can just accept them all,
Take the sunshine with the showers, take the thunder with the squall,
And then just watch them from safe distance, be the sky that’s always here,
And not perturbed by feelings passing, for we know they’ll disappear.
© Corinne Shields, 2015
If you enjoyed, “DEALING WITH FEELINGS” please pass it on, and do leave your comments. I would love to hear from you.
And just before you go …..
A final word from ACT …..
I am not leaving the final word to ACT today, but rather to a recent post that I read at the Wellnessworx.com It really struck a chord with me.
The post is entitled:
Addiction Is Not What We Think It Is
Gabriella introduces a guest speaker by the name of Johaan Hari. She explains how she had the pleasure of sitting in on one of Johaan’s workshops last year and learned of his past with addiction and how he took his curiosity of addiction to travel the world to speak to scientists and users and find what addiction really is and how it can be helped.
The video makes for compulsive viewing. If you have struggled with or overcome addiction or know someone who has, check it out. I am sure that you will find it fascinating. Hari is a brilliant speaker. I am sure that ACT would approve!
How about YOU?
What can YOU do just for today to ACTivate your life?
Just for today I will ………………………
If you have read this far, please do leave your comments. How is ACT helping you?
I am a student of ACT. I am on a journey. I would love you to join me.
With all good wishes